How to Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline Right Now

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Call 800.799.SAFE, chat live with an advocate on thehotline.org, or text START to 88788. These options connect you with confidential support 24/7/365, and you can use any of them whether you need to talk through what's happening or want referrals to local services. If you can't reach a live advocate, the site's A.I. chat assistant, Ruth, is available as a fallback.

Main Contact Options

Method How to connect Notes
Phone Call 800.799.SAFE Live advocate support, available 24/7/365
Live chat Use the chat option on thehotline.org Connects you with a live advocate
Text Text START to 88788 Message and data rates may apply; text STOP to opt out
A.I. chat (Ruth) Use the A.I. chat on the site For when you can't reach a live advocate; speak to a live person by calling, chatting, or texting

The Hotline describes its advocates as providing support, crisis intervention, education about domestic violence, and community resources and referrals. It does not provide direct financial assistance—no cash support, hotel vouchers, or transportation vouchers—but advocates can point you to community resources that may help with those needs.

Specialized Lines

If a general line isn't the right fit, these dedicated services are listed on the site:

  • StrongHearts Native Helpline — 844.762.8483, for Native Americans and Alaska Natives
  • National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline — 866.331.9474, for young people experiencing abuse or with questions about healthy relationships
  • The Deaf Hotline — video phone 855.812.1001, for individuals who are deaf and hard of hearing

Spanish-language access is available through the En Español option in the site menu.

Before You Reach Out

  • Privacy: The Hotline states its support is confidential. If you're concerned about someone seeing your activity, the site links to guidance on digital security and planning for safety.
  • What to expect: Advocates listen and can connect you with local providers, including shelters, legal help, financial aid, counseling, state coalitions, and low- or no-cost health care.
  • If you're not ready to call: Reading about warning signs and the Power and Control Wheel on the site can help you put words to what you're experiencing, and the A.I. chat offers a lower-pressure first step.

If you're in immediate physical danger, contact emergency services first—the Hotline is a support and referral service, not an emergency responder.