What Is One Bright Star and Who Does It Help?
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One Bright Star is a nonprofit resource for families grieving the death of a child. Founded in 1998 by four mothers who had each lost a child, it serves grieving families—with several of its direct financial programs focused on southern Minnesota—through memorial events, funeral expense grants, retreat grants, and ongoing peer gatherings.
Who One Bright Star helps
The organization describes itself as "a resource for grieving families who have lost a child to death." Its support is aimed at parents, siblings, and families after a child's death, and its events include programming for children who are themselves experiencing loss.
Its funeral expense grant is specifically limited by geography: it assists families in Southern Minnesota, working through local funeral homes to make the grant available.
Where it came from
One Bright Star was founded by four mothers, each of whom had lost a child:
| Founder | Child | Circumstances | Date | Age |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Jan Backlund | Daughter, Khia | Leukemia | November 3, 1990 | 10 |
| Barb Rischmiller | Son, Brandon | Pole vaulting accident | February 4, 1991 | 18 |
| Linda Janavaras | Son, John | Meningitis | February 3, 1995 | 15 |
| Vicki Meyer | Son, Brandon | Fatal car crash | May 19, 1995 | 17 |
That shared experience shapes what the organization offers: the kinds of support the founders themselves needed.
How One Bright Star helps families
A place to remember
One Bright Star's Children's Memorial is located at Ray Erlandson Park in Mankato. It gives families a physical place to remember and honor the child they lost. An annual Children's Memorial Service is held each fall for families and the community.
Funeral expense grants
The funeral expense grant is intended to ease the financial burden that follows a child's death. Because One Bright Star works with local funeral homes to provide it, families in Southern Minnesota should ask their funeral home whether it participates, or contact One Bright Star directly about eligibility.
Grants for a stay at Faith's Lodge
One Bright Star offers a grant for families to stay at Faith's Lodge, described as a grief retreat center. The stated purpose is to help families connect and move forward in their grief journey—time away together rather than a one-off payment.
Ongoing gatherings and events
- Comfort Conversations — held monthly, described as a relaxed setting for conversation, friendship, and coffee.
- Mothers of Angels — an annual event for mothers to connect in a creative atmosphere.
- Children's Mini Camp — an activity-based celebration and support event for children experiencing loss.
- Additional events throughout the year, listed on the organization's events page.
How to decide whether to reach out
One Bright Star is likely a fit if you are grieving the death of a child and are looking for peer connection, a memorial community, or—if you are in Southern Minnesota—help with funeral costs or a retreat stay. If you are outside Southern Minnesota, the funeral grant may not apply, but the memorial events, monthly conversations, and camp programming are not described as geographically restricted.
The site accepts donations through PayPal, and its events are organized by date and category. To check current event dates, grant details, or eligibility, use the organization's own events and grants pages rather than relying on secondhand summaries.